The Sweet 16

Dear Readers,

Joyride is a yummy little taco joint and is
somewhere I've been wanting to go,
so why not go when it's your birthday? :)

      I know I've absent for quite awhile, but I've also been absent of inspiration and motivation. But I'm not going to fill this up with excuses. This summer has been a roaring one. I traveled to two summer camps, one here in Arizona, the other in California. Both camps have grown me in my faith and the person God has me becoming. He's confirming what I want to be doing. It's very exciting. For my campaign, which has come to an end, was blown out of the water. I had a huge fundraiser with and outstanding turnout of $500 and it really showed how blessed I was with the friends I have. The total amount raised over these eight months was $1500. My campaign has grown me in ways I never imagined. I trust my God better and my perspective has widened as well. Also amongst all the little outings and shenanigans throughout this summer, I turned 16 yesterday. Yes, the big sweet 16! It's funny, I don't feel older, I've been feeling 16 for the past month to be honest...now it's just official. The thing I have been feeling is changed. A new sense of maturity and responsibility arise when you turn 16 and a whole new door is opened to you. Looking back, there a few things that I've figured out that I'd like to remember later on in life. Well, not a few, more like 16 little tidbits to hold onto. See what I'm doing here ;)

-- This means that any one who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone, a new life has begun. 2 Corinthians 5:17 -- 

     1) Be content with who you are.
         God designed you exactly the way you are created for a purpose specially planned for you. Be content with with our Creator for He makes no mistakes.

     2) Find joy in the little things.
          Take time to notice all the little things in your every day life that bring you so much joy. Figure what those things are, devote time to them, and appreciate them often.

     3) Live simply.
          Re-prioritize. Line your priorities up in such a way that keeps God the center, honor those you love, and even growing yourself. In that order too. Always keep God first, it makes all the difference.

     4) Do more of what makes you happy.
          Find the things in your life that simply make you smile and make you who you are, and devote more time to doing those certain activities. It's very important that we take time to do the things that make us happy as well.

     5) Find a friend.
          Find someone in your life whom you can be totally comfortable around. It took me forever to find a friend who I could be myself around, but once I had it totally changed me. Find someone who will challenge you and encourage you all the way.

     6) Don't live in the crowd.
          Stand out amongst the crowd. Don't get caught up in the ways of this world, it's not worth it. Instead rise above and be the one people want to follow, become the leader. Once I made the decision to become the leader, it greatly increased my level of influence and impact.

     7) Clean it out.
          Clean out the things in your life that cause you to stumble or revert to an old pattern of life. Find the things that easily tempt you or clutter your thoughts and clean them out. Choose to replace them with thoughts that honor Christ.

     8) Enhance the Kingdom.
          In Ephesians, it states that we all have unique gifts from God, and when united we all accomplish the big purpose God has for us all together. But in order to do that, we have to recognize the ways we've been gifted. For me, I feel gifted in the way I encourage and pour into people, so I'm then choosing to enhance His kingdom wholeheartedly.

      9) Invest in those around you.
           A big take away from this summer is who I invest in and pour into. I've felt the conviction to invest more of time in my fifth graders, my youth group, and even my sister. I've realized that I have influence with those around me, so I have to be intentional and a good example to those looking up to me. That's an honor not a burden.

     10) Trust God with it all.
          That statement has been one I find myself repeating everyday. With my campaign, I've learned what it is to really trust God and how to rely on Him. And oh, how it's paid off. God blesses obedience, and I am beyond blessed because I've chosen a life of complete trust and complete surrender. Trust Him wholeheartedly.

     11) A servant's heart.
          When you get an opportunity to serve, do it with a servant's heart. Serve cheerfully. Serving is such an amazing way to grow God's community, so we best do it cheerfully. I adore serving, and I've had the opportunity of watching growth within other's and even myself. Serving is a marvelous way to see God at work.

     12) Choose joy.
          This summer has been one that's brought me abundant amounts of joy. From some many sources, joy is possible. Choose joy because joy is rooted in Christ and will therefore last forever.

     13) Positive mindset.
          This one has been very important throughout my life. Our lives are filled to the max with unknowns, and that freaks me out. Not knowing what I'm walking into... oh boy. How I combat that is the perspective I choose, which is one of positivity. Look for the good in all things, then you'll start noticing the good in all things.

     14) Set goals.
          Set goals for yourself. I love setting goals, because I love finishing the goals even more. Results motivate me, but I need something to reach for. When you set goals you'll find yourself more motivated, consistent, and empowered. Goals help you become the best person you can be, because you're pushing yourself to you're limits and achieving innumerable results.

     15) Set standards
          Upon entering any relationship, start by setting standards and expectations. It will make all the difference and say a lot about your character. It'll show people what you expect out of them. Create the relationship you wan to be in, don't let worldly standards dictate your expectations.

     16) Make a difference
          In everything you do, leave a legacy; make a difference. Make such a difference that others who come after you will be inspired by what you've done. In any and every situation, make a change that inspires others and glorifies God. Make a difference by standing above the crowd, constantly enhancing the Kingdom, and pursuing God's unique purpose for you.

The 2016 Summer Bucket-list!!

     I could go on and on with those topics, but that's the basis of what I've figured out over these past years. I did not learn this on my own. I went to those who know far more than I do, those who have far more experience. This doesn't stop at 16, the list continues, I keep growing. But I wanted to take what I've learned and share that with you. As I learn more, I'll update the list ;)
     This summer has been one for the books, and sadly it's coming to an end. I made a bucket list even, and checked off so much. New restaurants, friend time, summer camps and way more that I'm still checking off. There was plenty I wanted to get done, and plenty I was not expecting to do. This summer has taught me way more than I imagined. I definitely made the most of this summer, and got a lot done, but I've also learned a lot this summer. Now that's an experience I'll never forget and something to hold on to for quite awhile.

XOXO - Em