Monday, March 13, 2017

Seeking Satisfaction

Hey friends!
     Can we all just throw our hands up for spring break?! I totally am over here. Jill and I have kicked off our spring break with a full schedule. There's movie days, cookie making, shopping extravaganzas, and a whole lot of time with some spectacular people. Today we woke up early and shipped our parents to Vegas for their 20th wedding anniversary. Seriously how exciting is that?! So, Jill and I decided to start spring break proper: pancakes and an Audrey Hepburn movie. May or may not be the way we start every morning.... We are so stoked for this entire next week and have been looking forward to it for about a month. The reason we're so excited is what we chose to put on the agenda: things we love to do, our favorite people, and unique bonding time with one another. We've been itching to get rid of our parents so we can get started with this jam packed week. This week will be without a doubt be filled with genuine joy and overwhelming excitement because of what Jill and I are making a priority.

-- "For He satisfies the longing soul, and the hungry soul He fills with good things." - Psalm 107:10 --

     Recently, I've found myself seeking joy and recently I've found my joy in all the wrong places. As much as I say on the blog to find your joy and excitement in only Christ and live your life doing what you're passionate about; I've not been living that out as genuinely as I should. I've sought out dead ends, I've devoted me time to stressful things, and I've turned in circles seeking satisfaction. Not until I started a study wth my sweet friend Jackie Cole, did I realize where my downfall was. Ironically, it was deep within myself. The Bible study we committed ourselves to was one on living free and breaking the bond between us and our strongholds. It was life changing and eye opening. This study helped me realize how present my God is in my life and just how often He shows up for me ( spoiler alert: it's all the time). But probably the biggest take away was the source of my satisfaction and also my dissatisfaction. Through prayer and the word, God revealed Himself to me time and time again. The way He revealed Himself to me was as my ultimate sustainer, absolute ruler, one and only, and everlasting Father. He is mine and I am His. He is all I need. It took time and even took testing, but I came to see that my God alone is my satisfaction. Only He can meet every desire I will ever have. But, there's a catch: I had to get rid of the source for my dissatisfaction.
     Now, this doesn't mean I've been leading an unhappy depressed life. No, I was choosing to find happiness in places God wasn't center and give my time to things God wasn't apart of. I was turning to other worldly things for satisfaction rather than God alone. There's an ugly word for that: it's called an idol. Ouch.  Like everyone else, I had this deep craving in my heart, and I bet like many of you, I tried to meet that craving in my own way. Through my bible study, I came to understand God created us all with that deep rooted craving. God also created a way for that craving and desire to be eternally met. It's through a unique and intentional relationship with Him and Him alone. If we strive for that relationship while still holding hands with our idol, no craving is being met. But once we let go of all worldly attractions and turn both eyes and hand up to God, our satisfaction will be forever sustained. God is just so cool like that. After the six weeks of the study, I've identified the harsh yet real idols in my life, that are deeply rooted within. I've also taken initiative to rid myself of them and replace them with God. It's not easy, far from it. But it's beneficial and oh so rewarding. I want to always feel that sense of craving because it encourages me to actively seek after a way to fulfill it. Now I know who it is I'm earnestly searching after, for I now know I need not search any other place. God has proven himself worthy of all my joy and attention, and boy does He deserve it.
     In the same way I'm going into my spring break choosing things that bring happiness; I'm taking that approach to many other areas of my life. In the pass six weeks I've gotten a lovely glimpse at what true satisfaction and joy is and how appealing it was. The peace it brought was instantaneous, the joy it brought was lasting, and the feeling over all was one of release. I'm releasing what I thought would make me happy and fill me up over to the one who already has that job. God's got this sewn up in our lives, we don't have go out searching and hoping something else can provide only what He can.  From now on, as challenging and testing it will be, in taking what I read in my study and putting it into action. I'm seeking God and not this world, I'm letting go of control and taking a step back. My God has, is, and will forever satisfy every need I have and He will abundantly do the same for you as well. Earnestly seek and choose Him in all areas of you life. He's already waiting for you there.

XOXO- Em 

Tuesday, February 21, 2017

1Mission-February 2017

Hello Everyone!! I hope you all had a fabulous weekend. The weather in Arizona was definitely unusual for February: rainy and windy. We Arizonians are in high expectations for warm and sunny days now that December and January are behind us. But the weather, being about as predictable as a deck of cards, made for a cold February. However, as a family, we were hoping to escape the drab weather and spend President's weekend down in Mexico. To say the least, we did not. 

--"Then I heard the voice of the LORD saying, 'Whom shall I send? Who will go for us?' And I said, 'Here I am. Send me!'" Isaiah 6:8

     This past weekend, my family and I made our way down to Rocky Point, Mexico, the base camp for the amazing organization: 1Mission. 1Mission's sole purpose is to provide safe and adequate housing for those in need. The cool part: the families being helped have to earn a required number of hours to earn a house. So not only is a family receiving a house, a community is being built. As of this weekend, 1Mission has helped build 550 houses and has changed countless lives in the process. My family and I have not done a mission trip together since 2011. I have gone on several since, but with intersecting, never resting schedules, we've been unable to do one together. With an empty schedule and weekend, the Surretts made their way down to Mexico. 
      My whole family has done this mission trip before, but that was six years ago; things have changed. Jill is now fourteen and it would be her first real house build and my parents would too be right beside me. I was ecstatic. I could not wait to experience this amazing and life changing trip with three of my most favorite people. With high expectations for this trip, my whole family was over the moon excited for the weekend. 

-- "And He who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God's people in accordance with the will of God." Romans 8:27

     Well, when we arrived, we did not outrun the weather as we had hoped. We drove into the base camp in a dust storm and went to sleep in the pouring rain. With optimism, we hoped that the rain would dry up before we left for the work site the following morning. Yet it did not with a forecast of 90% chance of rain all day. The rain lasted all day. After getting a late start to the job site, the weather remained cold, windy, and rainy the entire day. We had too many hands working so many were left just standing in the pouring rain. My mom and I found ourselves in the heated car watching for most the day. It was miserable. It was not what we expected. Far from what we planned. But not at all far from what God had in mind, and that's what I realized through all the waiting. I serve a God who is completely in control and has a plan for every single day that I am apart of. It's hard to understand what He has going on inside His head, or even why He allows certain things (like rain storms) to happen. During all the waiting, I turned my thoughts to God, and accepted the turnouts of this day. No, this is not what I had in mind, no this is not how I wanted to start my trip, but I am going to say yes to God in the midst of the storm (literally and figuratively). It is for God to orchestrate and for me to trust. 
     I had high high hopes for the following day. I woke up, ate a protein bar for breakfast and was ready to hit the site, determined to do some work today. While still cold, it was not raining, and coming prepared I heavily layered up in what I wore. Sure I might get cold, but I was going to suck it up and build a house that day. The team got an early start to the site and everyone was in a great positive mood. Thank you God, for letting up on the weather and giving us a great day to serve you and your children in need. On our way to the job site, our line of cars pulled over. Come to find out, one of the cars blew two tires breaking one of the rims in the process. Really God, really? Quick back story: my father is a grease monkey to the core. He worked in an automotive repair shop for 11 years and grew up with fully immersed in an environment filled with that of cars. My dad knew cars like I know how to make a bowl of cereal. Pretty dang well. So, who do you think stayed behind with the car while everyone went to the job cite? Yup, you guessed it, my family. But, that's not how the morning is supposed to go. It's not rainy, I'm not freezing, and we got an early start...we should be at the job site working!! Okay, okay, I know a tire change should be pretty quick - but not when you have a tire that doesn't fit and you're in a country where you have no idea where a tire shop is. Frustrated and already an hour into a tire change, we were all getting a little restless. Then God showed up. A car pulls up to us and the man inside speaks perfect English. His name was Carlos and he was the best thing that happened to us that day. He stayed with us the whole time (total of two additional hours) and helped us find a new tire for the man who's car broke down. Carlos was amazing and beyond helpful. We got it all fixed up and continued on our way to work, forever grateful for Carlos.
     At the job site, the weather held up and we experienced a perfect day for working. We came together as a team and got it done. Maria, the woman whom we're building for, was a lovely help to us all. She was involved in every job possible and encouraged us all to give it our best effort. The team was cruising that day, and we finished early, even though my family missed almost the first half of it. But again, it comes down to that trust and recognition that God is in control. If we hadn't of stayed behind, we wouldn't of met Carlos. If we hadn't of pushed hard and worked together we wouldn't have finished early. I can now see how powerful my God is and how undeniable His hand is in all things. That day we did serve His children, just not the ones we had in mind. Early that day too, we were building: not the house, but relationships. God took these inconveniences and turned them into blessings for our benefits.

-- "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose" Romans 8:28 --
This is Maria and her brand new house. Her hardwork for
this house is something truly inspiring.

     This week was FAR from what my family and I had in mind. We had it all planned out on the way down to Mexico, but right from the beginning in that dust storm and all the way throughout, God reminded us who was ultimately in charge. I'm so glad He did, because if He hadn't I know my mindset on this trip would have been totally different. I instead choose to see Him in control in my waiting, I decided to trust Him in my lack of understanding, and I choose to keep my eyes on Him and not the present circumstances. As unexpected as this week was, it was filled with fond memories. I got to do a mission trip that I love dearly with my spectacular family. Can I just say, they killed it out there! Gosh, I thought I had some skills, but no, my family was so hardworking and determined that it inspired me and made me so proud of them. Maria, loved her house. We were able to finish the house and Maria could not have been more grateful. She worked so hard for this moment and now her life is forever changed. I highly doubt she will lose her servant heart just because she earned this house. If anything, I believe her level of serving will increase, because she will want others to experience what she has experienced herself. Throughout this trip, it has really been a blessing to wait in the car, change tires, and even get started late to building because it has reminded me of the God I serve. He is majestic and in total control of everyday matters. My trust in Him has increased exponentially because I opened my eyes to the fact that He is present in every aspect of my life. And I get to be apart of His marvelous plan. 
      Filled with new memories and many learned lessons, I will forever remember this trip. This trip was like no other, but I think it will become one of my favorites because it has turned out to be like nothing I imagined. 
These are stingray tacos that Maria made for us the last day.
They were interesting to say the least, very appreciated,
but definitely a new flavor. But, hey I can now say I tried
stingray.
This lil' cutie put my hammering
skills to shame this weekend.















XOXO - Em

Monday, February 6, 2017

Real and Intentional

Hello friends and happy February.
     Is it just me, or did everyone just get used to January and then it was over. I'm still so very excited for 2017, but amazingly it's moving quite fast. On top of schedules, goal setting, falling back into routine, become better versions of ourselves, things quickly got a tad bit hectic. Anyone else with me on that? January was swell and was definitely filled with new discoveries. I'm glad to report, all the goals mentioned in my post on 2017 goals are coming into action. I'm staying determined and consistent, and I'm beyond proud of myself. There's nothing like achieving personal goals to bring someone true and genuine confidence. I have to say, going into this year having Christ totally in center has made all the difference. I set goals last year, but I found ways to have control over the outcome; this year, I've let go of that control and let God resume His rightful place. Hmm, things are going much smoother, I guess that's how He intended it to be. 
     Now, February is upon us, and I'm very excited, because it's the month where eating copious amounts of chocolate is totally acceptable. Seriously, hand me a box of chocolates and I'll even eat the weird orange filled ones. Okay, quick question: how do you find out what's inside the chocolate when there's no label!? My methods range from taking a nibble out of each one, creatively scraping away at the bottom of each, and even smelling them like I'm a chocolate connoisseur. We all have hidden talents. I love this month because this month is full of love. I think it's so fun how each month has it's own theme, makes each one it's own kinda special. Anyway, we're focusing on love here. I don't mean the gushy kind or the sappy kind, though I'm a fan of the punny kind because it's so a-peel-ing. Haha, like a banana, get it...nothing...okay. The kind of love I'm talking about and going to be practicing this month is a genuine kind of love. And that's what I'm going to share with you here. 

 -- "Dear children, let's not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions."  1 John 3:18 --

G E N U I N E  L O V E - 
      One kind of love I'm focusing on this month, is a more genuine love. The word genuine is "truly what something is said to be; authentic; sincere." In the scripture above, as Christ followers we are called to have an actionable kind of love, and one can carry out an action but it's the motive behind that makes it worth something. When I serve or interact with those around me, I need to stop and ask myself what is my motive? Am I doing this because it's a have-to? Am I doing this to gain something for myself? Am I doing this so I better display my own name in some way? Or, am I doing this because it's my calling and because by displaying my own love, I'm displaying the Father's love? That's the question. When presented with opportunities (and there are plenty) I need to act in such a way that will promote the Father's love. That is being genuine: knowing the purpose behind your actions and being motivated to carry them out in an authentic, real way. Anybody can serve and show love, but when you personally make it your mission to be real in every aspect of that display, that's when your love becomes genuine. 

I N T E N T I O N A L  L O V E -
Is is just me, or does anyone else have an obsession
with stationary? There's absolutely nothing like the
feeling of handwriting a card for someone or
receiving and handmade card. It's the little things
like stationary that brings me such joy.
     I am a strong believer in the fact that God places certain people and relationships in our lives for a purpose, that nothing is by chance. I also take that very seriously. I look at every relationship I have, and ask myself, "What can I do to fully maximize the relationship God has placed in my life?" It's something I take to heart and something I'm feeling convicted about to put into action. It's very easy to ask yourself these questions and mentally come up with excellent answers, but if you don't put anything into action, your relationships won't be effective. This month I want to examine my relationships with my friends, family, and role models, and find ways to become more intentional. Through my actions, I want those I'm close to, to know that they are valued and that this relationship is valued. If it's through gifts, letters, or much needed conversations, then I will do it. Ultimately, what I want most is not what the present can offer, it's the long lasting impact of my being intentional. By being intentional, God is strengthening each friendship and making it's effectiveness increase. This month it is my goal to go above and beyond to make sure I'm being intentional with those God has placed in my life.

R E F L E C T I V E  L O V E -
     Currently I'm doing a bible study with a dear friend of mine. The topic is on living free and applying God's word to our lives. In the last session we did, something really stuck out to me: what is in our mind will be reflected by our actions. Basically, whatever we let in will come out...positive and negative. That then prompts the question, "What am I letting fill my mind; what's being reflected?" Paul encourages us in Philippians 4:8 to fill our thoughts with what is true, noble, admirable, pure, and worthy of praise. Verses like these give me strength so I know what to actively search for as I better my mind, but my study made something about this verse clear to me that I hadn't fully taken to heart before. It was the fact that so often with Phil. 4:8, I see these characteristics as ways to better my mind and heart. But really these are attributes of God, and I'm are called to be like God in every aspect. This verse was not one more thing to check of a get-better-at list; no this was Paul illustrating who our God is and that we are to be more like Him. By filling our mind and heart with characteristics that reflect our Father, we display our Father and that is the ultimate goal. This month, my goal is to center my thoughts on what reflects God, so I can display my God in my actions and through my character. That is a reflective kind of love. Because God Himself is love, and when I aim to be like Him, I am reflecting love. 

So, may this month be filled with decadent desserts, punny valentines, and above all real love. My hope for this month is I take what I've shared and live it out. I challenge you too, to take what you've read and make the most of this month by the way you show your love. Our love is no little thing, it has great power and an even greater testimony, for our love reflects what is on our hearts. My hope is that is always God. 

XOXO - Em

One more thing!! I've got a new recipe for you - take a peek at the bottom of this post!
     






ALMOND RAISIN CRUNCH BARS - makes 8
prep time: 25 min - cook time: 5 min - total time: 30 min

These bars are quite possible my new favorite snack bar. They are such an easy gift or a great thing to tag onto your breakfast. Personally, I'd eat 'em for all three meals, but my mom says I can't have a bar at all three meals. Oh well, I'll make a whole bunch and claim them. Did I really mean the whole give these bars away thing...? They're just that good. Their crunchy and chewy, equally salty and sweet, and absolutely scrumptious. They are beyond easy to make, gluten free, and protein packed. Now who wouldn't pass up a bar like that. After you try this recipe, I'm sure it's bound to become one of your new favorites too!!

I n g re d i a n t s: 
2 cups Almonds
2/3 cups Puffed rice cereal
2/3 cups Raisins
1/2 cup Unsweetened coconut
1/3 cup Agave syrup
2 tbs Honey
1 tsp Vanilla extract

D i r e c t i o n s:
1. Line an 8 x 8 baking dish with parchment paper and set aside
2. In a large bowl combine almonds, raisins, cereal, and coconut an set aside
3. In a small saucepan over medium high heat, stir honey, agave, and vanilla. Stir occasionally until boiling. Let mixture boil for 4-5 min, continue to stir occasionally. (The sauce will bubble up, so make sure to keep an eye on it)
4. Once ready, pour syrup over almond mixture and quickly toss to evenly coat. (the syrup will begin to harden) I started out using a wooden spoon and ended mixing with my hands. 
5. Once the bar mixture is evenly coated, transport to baking dish and press bars into the dish in an even layer. (you can use your hands or the bottom of a measuring cup) 
6. Let the bars cool for thirty minutes in the fridge before cutting. Then remove parchment paper and bars and cut into 8 equal pieces. 
7. Store in an air tight container and enjoy!! (bars will last up to 10 days)

I'd love to hear your thoughts!! Let me know in the comments below what you thought of this post and if you gave these bars a try!

Saturday, January 7, 2017

In Spirit and in Truth

     Hello everyone, hope you all are having a fantastic kick start to the new year. I know I am. I'm super pumped about all my goals and everything 2017 has in store. I know it's going to be a great year, because I'm going into it knowing what I want out of it. One thing I want to be better about is blogging more. I want to stay consistent with this blog because sharing my writing and ideas is something I love, and sharing it with all you is even better. I do ask that you look to the right of this post and click the follow box to start following my blog. With every new reader and every consistent reader, you all are motivating and encouraging me to keep going with my blog. By following, it will be a huge support to my writing and would mean the absolute world to me. Increasing my blog audience is a huge goal for me, but I can't do it without you, so, please take a quick break from reading this, click the follow button, then head back here to continue reading. Thank you so much!!

-- But the time is coming - indeed it's here now - when true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth. The Father is looking for those who will worship Him that way. John 4:23 --

     This year, I've continued starting my day in God's word, and I've started a new reading plan where it takes you through the entire New Testament in a year. A little less intimidating than the entire Bible, but just as fulfilling. With this reading plan, it starts with John then on the weekend it brings in an Old Testament passage that corresponds with the New Testament reading. I've only been at it for a week, but so far I'm really enjoying it. I love the slower pace after last year's plan. It allows me to really pour into the scripture and apply a more applicable view to what I'm reading. This Thursday I read John 2, an all too familiar part of scripture, but this time reading it through, I applied a new perspective to the word I was reading. Verses 13-22 portray the story of Jesus clearing the Temple. After the wedding in Cana, Jesus walks into the Temple to find it filled with merchants selling animals for sacrifices and people charging high rates for currency exchanges. Jesus, immediately filled with a righteous rage, drives the people from His Father's Temple. He yells out, "Get these things out of here. Stop turning my Father's house into a marketplace" (2:16) I had read this part of scripture many times before, but this last week I stopped, read over it again and a thought occurred to me. My earthly body is a Temple for God as stated in 1 Corinthians 6:19, "Do you not realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself." I don't belong to myself, I belong solely to Christ who has placed His Holy Spirit within me. 
     But much like the people in John 2, I have neglected the Temple's true purpose. I have filled it with unholy things and my own selfish desires. The Temple is a place of worship and praise and I've replaced that with my own pride. When I do this, God loses all credit for his creation and all authority over His Temple. I have filled my heart with worldly things, yet I justify saying "No, this is really for God," Who am I kidding. I know deep down this is all for me, and I know deep down it's only a matter of time before Christ comes in and clears His Temple. With passion and jealousy He clears our hearts and empties our Temple of all that is unholy. We stand empty and may feel lost. I know I've felt that way. So often we can get very comfortable in our way of life when we're in control, and when change makes it's way to center stage, we back down and shut out. I know I do it. I creep back to my old way of living out of fear all too often. After Jesus clears the Temple in John 2, He remains within the Temple. And today is no different. When Jesus clears our Temples creating a void within us, He fills the void with His presence and remains. Jesus becomes the things that will fill us, and I take so much comfort in that promise. When Jesus remains, we ourselves need to refocus our attention back to Him. Our bodies are a Temple, and a Temple is a place of worship and praise. My heart becomes filled with praise and glory for God and all He is capable of within my life. 
     Worship is a key part to our relationship with Christ. By our worship, it keeps us focused on who receives all the credit and who remains in the center of our hearts. To continue striving for a Christ like character, we must live out an active worship that is rooted in our Temples. Begin your day with reading His word, seek God in every decision you make, Remember to thank Him for all He's graciously done in your life. With daily praises such as those, we are filling our hearts with praise for our God, and worshipping Him in all we do. It may be a reality switch for some of us, it was for me when I decided to refocus. But, believe me, it's made all the difference. By refocusing my gaze on Christ, I've able to appreciate Him in all the little things around me. I've been able to recognize I don't belong to myself, but am able to act upon the Holy Spirit I'm filled with to better enhance God's kingdom. I've understood better that what fills my heart dictates my character, and I so badly want that to be God, so I can better show who He is. I encourage you stop and earnestly ask God to clear you and refill you with Himself so that you may be able to experience what a wonderful life He has to offer you.
      This year, I am going to actively increase my worship so I can then strengthen my relationship with God. Because I am His Holy Temple on earth, I want to be filled with gratitude for all God has done for me and for His constant presence in my life. No matter how many times I fill my heart with the things of this world, Jesus will still come in, clear me out, and remain because of His everlasting love and faithfulness. Now, I'm not saying that's an excuse to waver between God and this world, for we are not to have a double sided loyalty. But there is hope in God's promise of always restoring us and always remaining the center of our lives when we allow Him to come in and clear our Temples. 

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XOXO - Em

Saturday, December 31, 2016

New Year, Better Me.

Happy New Year's Eve!!
Here is the beginning to my bullet journal, read below for
more details. Not only is it the beginning to my journal,
it's a great visual beginning to my year. 
     I'm so so so very excited for 2017, I cannot wait to see what's in store for the next year. Is it just me, or does anyone else forget about the week between Christmas and New Year's? I do every time. Christmas comes and goes, and then I'm on pins and needles for the new year. I get myself so hyped up, that I just get disappointed to find that I've got to wait one more week. AHH, practicing patience over here... Anyway, as you can prolly tell, I'm stoked for 2017 for a couple reasons. One being that 2016 has been a year full of many changes and realizations for me. Secondly, I've marked out my goals for 2017 and could not be more thrilled. I love setting goals because I look at the progress I've made and see what my next steps are. One way I've chosen to set goals for myself is through a bullet journal. All it is, is a personalized journal logging your own specific goals and really organizing your year to come. At the end of this post is a set-up of mine and some tips to tag along. I loved making this journal because I got to make it my own, and it's a great way to visualize my goals and my entire year. I sat down at a lovely coffee shop in Flagstaff with my family and took a deep look at what my next steps are, and made some very real and reachable goals for myself. But more about that in a sec. Let's stop to look at some of 2016's defining moments. Shall we?
     One of my biggest accomplishments of this entire year has been my reading plan, call The Bible in ONE Year generated by my church. One of my goals for last year was to be more intentional with my reading and to grow my relationship with God through my reading. Oh boy, did I. It has affected every aspect of my life. This reading plan was the first time ever in really any area that I've intentionally stuck with something. I sucked at staying consistent, and I was going to see something through this year. I finished today. I read the last sentence of Revelation and did a little happy dance. I felt so good to say I had seen something all the way through and grew from the experience. I'll be honest there were plenty of days where my reading plan was something I checked of my to-do list, but the majority of my days involved thoughtful conversations, plenty of convictions, and even a heart change in certain areas of my life. I finished my reading today and stopped to process the thought. I had read God's word in an entire year. I never felt so fulfilled. By doing this reading plan it opened my eyes to two things, how undeserving I am and how thankful I am that my God never changes. Throughout the entire story His people waver back and forth from Him, and He still reaches out to them, answers them, and even redeems them. He disciplines His people, but it's because He jealously cares for us. His love is unconditional, His grace undeserving, and His name is eternal. How comforting the thought. That even though I mess up plenty daily, I'm still His chosen people. My stern discipline from Him was this reading plan. I needed something to stick with and something that was spiritually challenging, and by the end of it I'm running to Him. By reading His word, I see that His story isn't over and I'm playing an active role. I am beyond grateful for His word and appreciate it in a whole new way. I encourage you to include God's word in some way this upcoming year, whether it be a verse a day or a reading plan, but make God apart of your daily life. It will truly make such a difference. You don't have to commit yourself to an extensive reading plan like the Bible in a year, but do commit yourself to God with the choices you make, keeping Him the center of them all.
     Okay, Okay... 2017 goals. Yeah I have the fun goals to read at least fifty books, try new recipes, and write fun letters to my pals, but then there are the necessary sometimes uncomfortable goals that require a change in lifestyle. After an extensive recollection of 2016, I feel so confident in my goals and how I'm walking into 2017. The way I set goals is by looking at specific areas in my life (physical, spiritual, professional, academic, etc.) and break it down from there. I'm not going to go into every goal, because this would quickly become a long and deep blog post that none of us need to delve into. Instead I'll explain a few that stand out.
      A lot of my goals have to do with my character and maintaining one that is Christ centered. From doing my reading plan, I realized that now I've read the word, I want to live it out. I want to actively make a game plan to enhance every aspect of my life in everything I do. I want to see the best in everyone, I want to practice generosity, and exercise leadership. My character is a reflection of who I am on the inside, and as much as that's defined by my passions it's equally defined by my personality. So, this year is gonna be my year. It's my goal to thrive in who I know I'm capable of being.
      Another area is my future... like college... yikes. Man, is it stressful. This is going to be my senior year, so I have to get serious about where I want to go and what I ultimately want to do. I'm very excited about college, but honestly it's nerve racking. Well duh, Emma, it's this major switch in your life coming up. But sometimes it feels better just to state the obvious. So, in response to the inevitable, my goal for 2017 is to be more intentional in all I do. I really want to soak up this last year and a half and get everything out of it that I can. I'm going to be better about investing more time into my relationships, encouraging my friends, and being super intentional with my fifth (soon to be sixth) graders. God has purposely placed all these lovely people in my life, and I'd be stupid not to be an active part of their lives in the best way I can.
      The most expected goal for every new year is improving one's health. Last year I got a really good idea of what a healthy lifestyle looks like. As a family, we're taking our health seriously so we can have a lasting energy throughout the day and better mentality about ourselves in the long run. A healthy lifestyle can become addicting and consuming, I've figured that out by becoming kinda consumed myself over this last year. So, my family is coming together and we are going to all support and hold each other accountable when it comes to a healthier lifestyle. I love leading a healthy life, because not only are the physical effects a bonus but more importantly the mental effects are the strongest. When you think about yourself in a healthy and positive way, exerting confidence, then you're bound be happier. I know I have been these most recent months and I'm stoked for building that even more in 2017. A healthy lifestyle requires a good amount of activity balanced by foods that are nourishing to us.  I love the eating healthy and learning to cook in a nutritious way part of shaping up, but the other side, the working out side, requires a little love. I like working out, but do I love waking up early and getting all sweaty (especially when I wake up and I know it would've been a good hair day)? I'm not sure. Let's get honest for a sec. Who seriously loves the part of getting in shape that gets you all sweaty, gross, and beyond sore. Like so sore you can barely move the next day, and why can't we just get the cute workout clothes and skip the skip the "workout" part?  Oh, well then, with 2017 I'm going to learn to love the active side of my health as much as I do the yoga pants. So, to all those out there who's goal is similar to mine, let's agree to throw our hair up and muscle through because we're going to be so much happier by taking care of ourselves. My mom, sister and I have become big fans of Tone it Up. It's super fun, offers great workout schedules for any level of fitness, and a great planned out nutrition plan. I highly recommend taking a look at it and giving it a try.
     I find it so important to make sure I know my priorities and to turn them into a lifestyle. By setting goals, it helps me see where I want to end up and where my priorities need to be. I'm really looking forward to 2017, and making the most of this year. It's going to be spectacular; I know it. How I know it- because with my goals I've prepped myself and now I'm eagerly ready to get started with being the best version of me in every way.
 
BULLET JOURNAL
For 2017, I made me a bullet journal. Besides turning super pretty, I think it's a lovely way to tangibly interact with your goals and keep track of where you're at. You can get so creative with your layouts and what it is you want to track, the options are endless. Below is a layout of my journal and how I set mine up. Hope you can find some inspiration down below.

First of all, you're going to need a journal (mine is a 250 pages) that is unlined so you can get creative in there. You'll also need pens for writing that won't bleed through and a color scheme (only if you want, I'm a tad bit OCD, so I opted for a theme.) On your first page make an index logging where your contents can be found.
Then move on to a yearly spread. to the left is my set up. Um, yes I did write 365 numbers in one sitting, I don't recommend doing so. I do recommend using a ruler to make sure you get even lines, and outline everything in pencil first. With my record of misspelling and and uneven lining, the ruler will become your best friend. the two pages after the yearly over view, I made a list of all your typical holidays plus birthdays for 2017. You can set that up any way you'd like. I set mine up similar to the picture above with twelve boxes lined up, and filled them up with respective holidays rather than numbers. Now we get to the fun part. The goal setting part!


This is my fitness page, logging where I want to be within a year, within each
month and within each week. It includes 60 minutes of activity everyday, and
hiking more regularly! If you choose to include this as one of your pages, make
goals that are fitting to your lifestyle, and ones you know you can reach.
I gave each goal page two pages so would have plenty of room to fill them up. My first pages following are my general goals for 2017, then the following pages hold more specific areas concerning my general goals. I have four areas filled with what is important to me for the upcoming year, and have set it up in such a way that's easy to keep track and to log progress. These are the fun pages. I have one for my health, recipe exploring, reading, and spiritual. You can choose these topics or come up with your very own. The next few pages are just what's a priority to you and how you're going to keep track throughout the year. My tip to you is split it up into categories. As you can see with my spiritual page, I have one page devoted to general goals, the the next page is a place to keep track of my progress. I did this set up for most of my layouts, and I'm very excited to see it all come together and be filed out with the year to come.


This section gets my very excited. Here, as you can prolly tell is my place for recording
my reading progress. I've got a cute little set up to keep track of what I've read, and right
next to my bookshelf, is a place to keep track of genres I've read. I'm super excited to fill
this one out!

Now we have reached the set up for each month and week. I loved setting this up because I have a weird love for planners. I love seeing my whole week written and planned out, and love it even more when it's set up in such a beautiful creative way. On one page, following your goal pages, label which month we're dealing with. As you can see I've set up January. Then I made a list of all my monthly specific goals, things that I want done by the end of January. Following that was the weekly set up. You can get super creative with this part. Set up your week in such a way that will fir your lifestyle. For me, setting up boxes would give me enough room to fill it with school assignments, friend dates, church events, and workout schedules. Phew, that's quite the week. I also made a place for important dates, and an area to write any blog or recipe ideas I thought up through out the week.

Bullet journals are such a fun way to stay consistent and on track with your goals. I want to make the most of 2017 and by setting up my journal, I can see all my goals laid out, and eagerly waiting to be reached. I can stay organized and on top of my schedule with such a pretty journal. I hope you find this inspiring and give it try yourself. It's worth it, even though the set up requires time, it's definitely worth it. Because not only are intentional with coming up with goals for yourself, you're becoming intentional on how you're going to meet those goals. This year is going to be our year, so let's own it and soak it all up. Happy New Year everyone!!

XOXO- Em










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Saturday, December 24, 2016

A Simplified Christmas

Happy Holidays Everyone!!
     Christmas is just one day away... oh my! I just managed to get everyone's gift decently wrapped under the tree. This Christmas season has just flown by, but it was definitely one for the books. The last month of 2016 has been jam packed, but spectacular. I adore Christmas as you well know, and this last month has definitely given me my fill of Christmas.
      Currently writing to you in my bed, because on this final week of the year, I am sick. Whoopie!! And of course I get sick right when my church is in full swing of Christmas Eve services. It's a lot, but honestly it's my favorite time of the year for my church. We get so many new people visiting us and it's our job to show them Jesus in such a way that is life changing. Christmas, I feel, is the perfect opportunity to show someone Jesus. Within the message shown, we're explaining why Jesus came, who He is, why His life was so significant, and the role He still actively plays today. And I love being a part of it all!!
     This Christmas season has felt different from all the rest, I've had a different mindset about everything this year that's left me overly satisfied, and I'm gonna share with you a few things I did that got me through the holiday season less stressed and more positive about what's ahead. They are simple ways to lead a more simplified focused life that can be applied to anything, not solely Christmas.
      This Holiday season I simply did more of what I love. As I've expressed before, I'm silly about baking. Nothing really gets me more excited (except maybe some new books ) than baking. It's something I've come to find I really love and something I want to pursue. So that's what I did! I recently attended a baking class at Sur La Table in Scottsdale, Arizona and learned the fine art that is chocolate, and oh boy... it's quite extensive, yet absolutely fascinating. I learned how to make peppermint bark and hand rolled truffles, sounds fancy eh? Well, the process is actually really easy once you get the hang of it. And chocolate being the beautiful thing that it is, pairs well with any flavor. After the class and taking home the goodies I managed not to eat, I realized I wanted more. Yes more chocolate, but specifically more experience in a culinary environment. While that requires a step out of my comfy zone and into the unknown, I walk in confidence for I know I'm walking into to something exciting; something that is shaping the person I'm becoming. So by simply doing more of what I love this holiday season (and all the days to come) I'm becoming this person I've been searching for. I'm becoming someone who's confident in her abilities and who's fear of the unknown is ever present but no longer controlling her decisions. By doing more of what I love I am leading a life of simplicity, because I'm finally focused on the passions in my life that make me happy.
      Also, throughout the holidays, I've kept my gaze upon Christ, and oh the difference it makes. This season especially, it's easy to lose sight of our Lord and Savior and get focused on those around us, the mounting to-do lists, and even the festivities. None of those things are bad, but none of those things should capture our full attention. This entire season is about the birth of our Savior, our Redeemer. With our eyes upon Him, our hearts will be satisfied our mind will experience peace. I cannot imagine going throughout this season without Jesus, I mean not only because it's His birthday, but also because He is the one who restores peace and security within me. Christmas is such an easy time to get wrapped up (get the pun) in all that's going on and watch it slip from your over filled hands. What I've had to do is to let it all slip, take a deep breath, then pick up some different things. I fill my hands and heart with Him. I've made an effort this Christmas to stay focused on the reason for this season and it's paid off. When I choose to keep my eyes on Him I see Him in every situation. When I fill my heart with Him, His love is revealed within me. When I fill my mind with Him, I see others the way He would see them. This Christmas has been simpler and more memorable because I've let go of control and became centered on Christ who has complete control of it all.
Here are a couple of verses I go to during this season, and they are such great reminders of what God is capable of and where He stands in my life.
-"For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on His shoulders and he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6
-"I meditate on your majestic, glorious splendor and your wonderful miracles. Your awe-inspiring deeds will be on every tongue; I will proclaim your greatness." Psalm 145:5-6
-"The Savior - yes, the Messiah, the Lord - has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David!" Luke 2:11
     Another way to achieve simplicity in the craziest time of the year is to make an experience out of it. Yes Christmas can be stressing, but only stressing because if make it so. If we choose to have a stressful, get-me-through-this mentality, then Christmas honestly won't be all that enjoyable. Trust me, I've had Christmases like that. But if we instead see Christmas as a wonderful time to recognize our Lord, surround ourselves with spectacular people, and fill it to the max with experiences... well you're bound to have a happy Christmas. As a family we made it a priority to focus on experiences instead of expenses this year. By making that simple perspective switch, our Christmas has become more enhanced and intentional. We have found ourselves choosing to stay in a do movie days and abundant amounts of baking for the sake of tradition. We'd rather spend time looking at Christmas lights and walking around downtown without feeling the need to spend money in order to make it special. This year, my sister and I tackled a gingerbread village rather than the traditional house. We had to hot glue the houses together and watch the frosting drip comically from the rooftops, but honestly it was really fun. What made it so enjoyable was the fact I was doing it with Jill right next to me laughing the entire time, and watching a cheesy Christmas movie. Now, it's something I want to do every year. From experiences such as those, we, as a family, find our Christmas most fulfilled and every memory treasured.
     Our Christmas has become simplified because our perspective and mindset has become more simplified. This year, by keeping Christ centered in our lives, we experience the result that is an everlasting genuine happiness that will make our holidays and everyday that follows more memorable. Merry Christmas everyone and I hope your Christmas is stress free and filled with experiences that enhance your holiday and even your new year.

XOXO - Em

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Thursday, December 15, 2016

A Few of My Favorite Things

Happy Holidays!!
      Can you guys believe it?! We're less than two weeks away from Christmas and I still have Christmas shopping to do. Oh boy, this is stressing. Thank goodness I've got good gift ideas, I just have to find some time to get out of the house and be away from the fam. Honestly, the struggle is real. Every day this week has been filled with something festive and as busy as it's been, it's been a blast. I love it so very much. We've made a bucket list of all the things we want to get out of December and I'm so proud of us! We are checking off so many boxes and fully embracing this last month of 2016.
   Today was my favorite day of the holidays: holiday baking!! Oh how I love me some festive treats and sugar cookie dough. Today was a blast and I couldn't have asked for some better pals to spend it with. My mama, Jill, and I baked all day and if I do say so myself came up with some pretty tasty treats for our upcoming Christmas party this Friday.
      Okay, so I love baking but I always seem to do a crap ton of it all on one day. Why is that? I always end up stuck in the kitchen for six hours straight making so many goodies. Alright, I love it, but man am I drained. The funny thing: I'd do it all again tomorrow.
      For this post I'm  going to share with you three of my favorite holiday treats that are bound to be a favorite at your next party or perfect for a day in! Also I've got some easy creative ways to dress up your gift wrapping this season. With new holiday treats under your belt and your wrapping to the next level, you're gonna be acing this season.

CLASSIC SUGAR COOKIES
Okay, I do Christmas for the sugar cookies. No lie; their seriously my all time favorites and an all time classic. You simply can't do the holidays without a sugar cookie topped with shiny royal icing. Lucky for you, I've got the PERFECT and only recipe you'll need this season. With this recipe there is no need to chill the dough and you won't get over sized fluffy cookies. Because who wants a Christmas tree that looks like and oval, and a snowman that looks like an oval, and an angel that looks like oval. See what I mean? Well with this recipe you are guaranteed true to shape cookies that are quite tasty too!!
Yeilds: 3 dozen
INGREDIENTS:
* 1 Cup unsalted butter
* 1 Cup granulated white sugar
* 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
* 1/2 teaspoon almond extract
* 1 egg
* 2 teaspoons baking powder
* 3 cups all purpose flour

1. Preheat oven to 350° F.
2. In the bowl of your mixer cream butter and sugar until smooth, at least 3 minutes
3. Beat in extracts and egg.
4. In a separate bowl combine baking powder with flour and add a little at a time to the wet ingredients. The dough will be very stiff. If it becomes too stiff for your mixer turn out the dough onto a countertop surface. Wet your hands and finish off kneading the dough by hand.
5. DO NOT CHILL THE DOUGH. Divide into workable batches, roll out onto a floured surface and cut. You want these cookies to be on the thicker side (closer to 1/4 inch rather than 1/8).
6. Bake at 350 for 6-8 minutes. Let cool on the cookie sheet until firm enough to transfer to a cooling rack

ROYAL ICING
INGREDIENTS:
* 6 cups powered sugar
* 1 tsp vanilla
* 1 tsp cream of tartar
* 4 large egg whites
* any food coloring desired

1. Combine all ingredients to a stand mixer and mix on medium speed until icing becomes smooth. About 5-6  minutes. Then divide up icing and add in your desired colors. Then get creative with your sugar cookies!
     Sugar cookie decorating is one of my favorite traditions and memories. My favorite part is when I'm nearing the end of icing and there are about seven or eight cookies left. The icing is starting to dry up and sprinkles are littered on my plate. So in record decorating speed I iced all the remaining cookies dumping the assortment of sprinkles on top and called it festive instead of what it really was: tired. I did that when I was eight, I did that once again today and have every year in between. I absolutely love it. Oh they all taste the same no matter the amount of sprinkles or icing, they are the perfect bite of a soft cookie with the smoothness of icing, soooo good!

MINT OREO TRUFFLES
Um, you can't do winter without some mint and chocolate. At least I can't. That quickly becomes a staple in the Surrett household. I don't know who said mint and chocolate had to get together, but whoever did, I thank them a thousand times. I don't know what I'd do without the lovely combination this time of year?? So I've whipped up a recipe that's bound to meet your mint chocolate cravings and be hit on any movie night or at any holiday get together. Okay let me spell it out. Cream cheese, mint Oreos, and chocolate all rolled into a chewy truffle. Sign me up for some! ( or three or four.)
Yields: 24

*1 (15.25 oz) package Mint Creme Oreos
* 8 ounces (224g)  cream cheese, softened to room temperature
* 12 ounces high quality semi-sweet chocolate1
* Optional: sprinkles and green candy melt

* Process the Oreos (the entire cookies, filling and cookie) in a food processor or blender. Pulse until crumbs are formed.
* break apart softened cream cheese and add to food processor with crushed Oreos. Mix until a thick sticky dough is formed. This might take a little bit, so make sure the cream cheese is room temperature.
* Using your hands, roll into 30-35 balls. Place balls on two large plates, a parchment paper lined baking sheet, or a silicone mat-lined baking sheet. Freeze the truffles for about 30 minutes. (Freezing the balls is the most important step of this recipe. If they are not cold and solid, the melted chocolate will not coat the balls properly.)
* Coarsely chop the chocolate and melt according to package directions. Working with 1 truffle at a time, coat in chocolate. Here's how I coat truffles: drop the truffle in the middle of the melted chocolate. Swirl the chocolate all around it with a fork. Pick up the truffle with a fork - do not pierce it, simply pick it up on top of the fork's prongs. Tap the fork on the edge of the bowl to allow the excess chocolate to drip off. Place on a lined baking sheet. Top with sprinkles while the chocolate is still wet or drizzle with the melted green candy melts, if using.
* Refrigerate truffles for at least 10 minutes so the chocolate sets. Truffles must always be chilled and will stay fresh for up to 5 days in the refrigerator. ENJOY!!

S'MORES CRISPIES
To be honest, this recipe was a what-have-I-got-left-in-my-pantry sort of recipe. I found me some marshmallows (in two different places), half a box of gluten free plain Chex cereal ( consisting of crumbs mostly), and half a bag of dark chocolate chips. That to me sounded like the making of a s'more...and a rice crispie treat....then the two became one. Oh happy day. These took no time at all to make (or eat) and your always bound to have these ingredients or some very similar to it on hand for a quick tasty goodie to throw together. Here's how it goes.
Yields: 16
INGREDIENTS:

4 cups rice Chex cereal
1 bag of mini marshmallows
2 tbsp butter
1/2 dark chocolate chips

Spray an 8x8 baking dish with non stick spray and set aside
In a medium sauce pan melt marshmallows and butter over medium heat
Once combined add cereal and mix together until cereal is coated with marshmallows
Place Chex Crispie treats in baking dish and press down until bottom of dish is evenly covered and place in refrigerator to chill.
Pour half a bag of chocolate chips in a microwave safe bowl and heat in 30 sec increments (stirring every 30) until totally melted.
Grab Crispies and pour the chocolate over the bars with a rubber spatula until top is totally covered.
OPTIONAL: sprinkle crushed graham crackers on top. Replace in refrigerator until chocolate has set then cut into 16 bars.

     I adore this holiday season because of all the goodies I get out of it. Baking all the time is fun, but it just seems like the proper thing to do during the holidays. Not gonna lie, the only reason I'm still working out in the winter is because my passion for baking has increased. Balance right? These three recipes are bound to be hit no matter where they end up. Hope you enjoy the recipes throughout this entire season.

BROWN PAPER WRAPPING
Brown paper packages tied up with string are seriously some of my favorites things. I can't help myself. Pretty paper with pretty decor...makes me heart go pitter patter. I met my love of adorned packaging by deciding to take a stab at some elevated Christmas wrapping.
Materials I used:
Brown wrapping - found in the packaging aisle, I had to ask. I found it at Wal-mart for about $5.00
Card stock paper - I used pink, mint, and white
A decorative piece of paper - I used black and white polka dots
Twine
Gold glitter
Liquid glue
Greenery - alive or fake, I used some generously provided by my front yard
5 boxes varying in size
Scissors
These are all the materials I used and here are the steps to a couple of boxes I did. This is super easy to change up and get creative with and use as a guideline. Wrapping is something you can easily make your own, and I don't see why you shouldn't. Have fun with it.
Okay here's what I did for a couple of mine.

I wrapped the box all nice and snug with brown paper, which can be a little difficult to use. I took the twine and wrapped it twice around the width, then twice around the length of the box. I then cut a square of my decorative paper fitting it smack dab in middle over the twine, gluing it down in the
corners. I then took a fuller piece of greenery and taped it in the middle of my square. And there you go. Give it a To and From and you have some simple and beautiful wrapping.


For this one, it required a lot of patience and light bulbs. You'll see. With my three card stock solids, drew out a twinkling light bulb and outlined them in black. I ended up with 24, eight of each color. I
then punched a whole in the end of them all, I long process, but the result is so pretty and unique, I just love it. From there tape the end of a piece of twine to back of your wrapped box, then string on four lights (any pattern of your choice), then wrap twine around with the lights on the front and an empty strip in the back. Repeat this process two more times until you have twelve twinkling lights hanging from you package.

Hope you enjoy this post and elevating your holiday season in such a simple, creative, and festive way. I know these are going to become some annual staples for me, hope they do for you too.
Happy Christmas!!

XOXO - Em